things that I used to keep for myself

After some contemplation and some women’s talk, I’ve reached to reach conclusion. We, women, seem to be so lost in translation and may be so dull in reading signs and signals that were given to us in relationship terms. You may think we don’t realize it, we “friendzoned” you , we ignore those code. 

But the truth is, we women may be so afraid that we accepted it wrongly. You know, it’s a big shame for us to think that the man has ‘something’ for us but actually there’s nothing. We think that you just ‘friendzoned’ us and some signs are just coincidences. We will accept those gestures as “no, he just being friendly”, ” no, he doesn’t mean it”, “no, he does it to everyone” , “no, he just joking around” and other denial like those. We better put it that way rather than raising our hopes high then finding the truth that there’s nothing anyway. 

Makes your intention clear, if I may suggest. Off course, done it if you think that you both really have something good. Maybe for some reason that’s why we  to be treated special bluntly, to ensure us that you’re serious, not joking, not tricking and to ensure us that it just isn’t our imagination. Keep your movement underground then our reply will be just a fade and safe gesture too. 

Cheers,

unspoken words